Sunday, January 27, 2008

What's Your Word?

I may have spoken a little too early about having extra time. My Big Talk (which went well!), then a Saturday “retreat” for work (silly me, I didn’t realize that “retreat” meant “long-ass meeting” – though I guess I should be grateful that there were no falling-backward trust exercises), and some bumps in the road with the new colleague (e.g., a patient declaring “I never want to see that doctor again in my life”), and the month has veritably flown.

But! It could have been worse. I have had some great runs, I have not been ill, and today – today I tackled our “to be filed” pile of papers. I was a little shocked to realize that I hadn’t filed anything for about fifteen months, but never mind that now – I am now up to date. It’s frightening, how happy I feel about this. I keep stopping at the door of our office/guest room and peering into the formerly overflowing, now empty baskets just to bask in the overwhelming sense of order and accomplishment.

Anyway, what I really wanted to post about was this: a couple of months ago one of my residents and I saw a patient who had a tattoo over his heart that read (in the usual Gothic lettering so popular with tourist-trap tattoo shops):


Depressed

Talk about truth in advertising. Naturally we got to talking about what one word we’d choose if we had to get a tattoo to describe ourselves. One resident thought his would be something along the lines of “Calm.” Another resident’s should be “Ebullient,” we all agreed. An attending who was passing by said hers should be “Skeptical,” but we argued with her on that; she’s actually kind of gullible.

So if you had to have one descriptor tattooed on you, what would it be? It has to be true most of the time, and something that those who know you well would agree is apt.

I’ll tell you mine after you all tell me yours.

70 comments:

Orange said...

It's a tie between "content" and "procrastinate."

ejh345 said...

"Relentless" for me...

clara-runner said...

optimist

ALG said...

"Resilient."

1. It's true.
2. When I'm down, it reminds me that this, too, shall pass. I will make it through whatever crap life is throwing my way.
3. When I'm up, it reminds me of how far I've come.

Runner-up: "Wordsmith."

C. said...

Persever

Flicka said...

Loved.

Sara said...

Undecided.

Martina said...

Fresh. In many, many senses of the word.

ozma said...

"Shoot here."

ScienceGirl said...

pessimist

B.E.C.K. said...

Hopeful.

artt said...

Nagging.

Feral Mom said...

Feral.

Elaine said...

Positive

sara said...

Kosher ;)

leslie said...

creative - and (all too often) cranky

Vanda said...

Assertive.

Anonymous said...

Whatever

Sarah said...

Eclectic

DEMummie said...

Jaded

Klynn said...

"Mommy"

I mother everyone, not just my children. (Much to the annoyance of some of my friends.)

Mijk said...

Listener

laughing mommy said...

Happy-go-lucky

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Jill said...

Mine would be two words: Bad Attitude.

E. said...

Satisfied.

(But "tardy" or "running late" would be a close runner up.)

debangel said...

"Persistent"

tadpoledrain said...

Um, um, um. I love questions like this. Mine would probably be "shy". Runner-up: "sister".

Allie said...

"genuine"

Teendoc said...

"fierce"

Anonymous said...

persistent

Megan said...

"Smart-Aleck"

I recently happened upon your blog and have found it fascinating! I'm an MD/PhD student, so I can relate, especially about not being able to remember details about your life and even forgetting entire events. It drives my boyfriend nuts, but I've fallen into the black hole.

Dara-curmudgeon said...

friendly cranky-pants.

In other words...I'm here for ya, but I need wine.

Laura said...

smartypants

Anonymous said...

Neurotic (think Woody Allen).

Nanarocksween said...

I actually DO have a beautifully inscribed tattoo on my right inside forearm - an acronym that is unreadable in its beauty unless you know what it stands for:
DILLIGAF

Yes, at 60 years old, my tatt stands for:
"Does it look like I give a fuck."
I thought it apt for an old lady like me with medical woes (like extremely LOUD, intrusive Tinnitus) that I can do nothing about.

Eliza said...

Overwhelmed. Or, alternately, "Screwed."

winecat said...

Let's see after breast cancer, ruptured bowel and possible heart attack ...

ALIVE

Artemisia said...

Depends on the day, but probably three words: "yeah, yeah, whatever."

Health Psych said...

Work-in-progress

Sheri said...

Curious.

Vic said...

Driven.

Jennifer said...

Independent

Denise said...

Fortunate

Leggy/Clover said...

Persistent

med school mama said...

witchy

Jen said...

"Jennifer"

Because some days it's hard to remember who I am.

Heather said...

"Compassionate", or "Intuitive", or perhaps "Empathic" would be my best words, but I'd love to put:

"Gotdandruffsomeofititches" :o)

kris said...

BITCH

i can't believe i am the only one..

Nell said...

Awesome question.
Two days ago: ambivalent
Today: trying

Anonymous said...

Disgusted.

Maybe humorously disgusted.

That goes for most everyone I work with as well. As urban emergency physicians we are constantly scraping up against the slimy and revolting underbelly of the human condition.

Angela said...

Distracted

Anne said...

Brave.

Nicole said...

Hopeless.

monicac2 said...

Thoughtful.

I really thought about this one - and I think this word is really right-on for me. Thanks for the great idea!

Dr. Wannabe said...
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Dr. Wannabe said...

(Painfully) Realistic.

Laura said...

"Barren." With a space left open underneath it for "Mama." Someday, maybe.

Old MD Girl said...

Intense

Jul said...

Wow. Fantastic question!

Have thought about this a lot since the initial post... keep waiting for one word in particular to feel absolutely, dead-on RIGHT, and the closest I've come is "ALIVE". At my best at at my worst, I still feel damned-near overflowing with it; the best compliment I ever received was, "You're more alive than anyone I've ever met."

Keri said...

Impossible.

Because I'm not supposed to be here, and in the words of my friend "You fought to be here when you were a child and I think you've forgotten you can stop now"

Or in the words of my mother "You'd argue with God Himself"

Elizabeth said...

Loquacious

Anonymous said...

Incorrigible

jenC said...

Broken

el said...

Sharp-eyed

RB said...

Worried.

Carolie said...

joyful

judy said...

INQUISITIVE
my question after question got me where I am today.
Hey if you get a chance I am a new blogger and would love you to stop by. I have been reading you for a while and love your blog.

Anonymous said...

Undecided!

Anonymous said...

Wooops, didn't mean to be so anon...Fiona